Thursday 31 May 2018

How To Communicate To A Husband Hard Of Hearing

By Nancy Walker


At times, we are born with all our senses working. Over time, or with old age, some of the senses like hearing and seeing to fail. At other time they just fail without reason. Sometimes we just have to live with the condition we find ourselves in. Sometimes, it is our friends or loved ones suffering from such conditions. Below are tips on how to communicate to a husband hard of hearing.

When a speaking to a person with difficulty in hearing, it is important to be considerate of this fact. Therefore, before you begin to speak, make a point of catching the persons attention. With normal people, you could just begin to talk but with them, concentration is paramount on their part. To avoid them not following the conversation, it is important to inform them before you talk.

Make sure that they are able to see your mouth. They fill in what they cannot hear by reading your lips. To make it easier for them, avoid covering your mouth while talking. Ensure you are in a well-lit place so that they can make out whatever it is you are saying. You should also avoid chewing a moving around as you speak.

The hearing aid only controls the loudness of what you are saying. If you, therefore, want to be heard, it is best you try enunciating in your speech. Apart from enunciating, make sure that you speak at a steady pace. This allows the listening party time to try and read your lips and process what is being said. Too slow maybe useless as it may be hard to gather what is being said.

Pick a quiet place. As mentioned before, hearing aids magnify the noise rather than clearing it up. So if you are going out go to one of the quiet and peaceful restaurants, or pick a corner booth with good lighting. At home, you should try to minimize the noise like turning down the AC and putting off the music when you speak.

When spending time with a group of people, do not make the person with the hearing problem feel excluded. You should be in a place that is well lit and put yourself in strategic positions where the person can be able to see each of you and read your lips. If the conversation involves them, take turns in speaking to avoid them getting confused.

At times, you may be needed to repeat saying something a few times before they get it. Sometimes the words you use may prove difficult for them to understand and it is at that point that you will need to rephrase your sentence. If all of that still does not work, try spelling out the first few letters of the difficult word.

You want this person to feel comfortable around you. This can be done by maintaining a sense of humor. If you get what the other person is saying wrong, lighten up the mood and make as much fun of it as you can.




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